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Almost everyone says couples should complement each other
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Americans put real, if measured, weight on a romantic partner who balances them out. Roughly four-in-ten (39%) say complementarity is moderately important in a partner, and 28% say it is very important, a May 2026 Verasight survey finds.
Strong feelings are rare on either side: just 9% call it extremely important, and 8% say it is not important at all. Another 16% say it is slightly important.
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Almost everyone says couples should complement each other.
How important is complementarity (e.g., being dissimilar to your partner in ways that balance each other out) in a romantic relationship partner?
- Moderately important 38.7%
- Very important 28.0%
- Slightly important 15.7%
- Extremely important 9.5%
- Not important at all 8.2%
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- Verasight panel recruited via random address-based sampling, random person-to-person text messaging, and dynamic online targeting
- Field dates
- 2026-05-11 → 2026-05-11
- Base (unweighted)
- 474
- Margin of error
- +/- 4.8%
- Module
- identity
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Verasight SPSP Omnibus Survey #2026-045, fielded May 11-11, 2026, N=474 US adults age 18+, +/- 4.8%.