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Romantic-partner similarity matters to eight-in-ten Americans
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In a Verasight survey of 526 U.S. adults conducted in May 2026, 82% of Americans said similarity in a romantic partner is at least moderately important. Including 40% who said moderately important, 32% who said very important, and 10% who said extremely important.
Another 14% said it is slightly important. About 4% said it is not important at all.
Topline
Topline scale
82% of Americans say similarity in a romantic partner is at least moderately important.
How important is similarity in a romantic relationship partner?
- Moderately important 39.7%
- Very important 32.4%
- Slightly important 14.0%
- Extremely important 9.9%
- Not important at all 3.9%
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View sourceMethodology
Full methodology- Mode
- Verasight panel recruited via random address-based sampling, random person-to-person text messaging, and dynamic online targeting
- Field dates
- 2026-05-11 → 2026-05-11
- Base (unweighted)
- 526
- Margin of error
- +/- 4.6%
- Module
- identity
Source
- 01Romantic-partner similarity matters to eight-in-ten Americansreports.verasight.io/reports/spsp26
Citation
Verasight SPSP Omnibus Survey #2026-045, fielded May 11-11, 2026, N=526 US adults age 18+, +/- 4.6%.
https://reports.verasight.io/reports/spsp26#q-identity-31_b