Report · Culture
When comparison motivates, and when it hurts
Reading
In a Verasight survey of 1,000 U.S. adults conducted May 1 to 4, 2026, 36% of Americans said comparing themselves to people doing better leaves them inspired, happy, or confident afterward.
A similar 33% said that same upward comparison leaves them disappointed, anxious, or frustrated. Smaller shares described reactions to comparing themselves with people doing worse.
Topline
Topline distribution
36% said upward comparison leaves them inspired, happy, or confident.
When comparing yourself to others, which of the following happens for you most often? Some of the response options seem similar, but that is on purpose. Please read carefully.
- I compare myself to people doing better than me, and I feel inspired, happy, or confident afterward. 36.0%
- I compare myself to people doing better than me, and I feel disappointed, anxious, or frustrated afterward. 33.4%
- I compare myself to people doing worse than me, and I feel relieved, satisfied, or confident afterward. 22.6%
- I compare myself to people doing worse than me, and I feel discouraged, anxious, or frustrated afterward. 8.0%
Methodology
Full methodology- Mode
- Verasight panel recruited via random address-based sampling, random person-to-person text messaging, and dynamic online targeting
- Field dates
- 2026-05-01 → 2026-05-04
- Base (unweighted)
- 1,000
- Margin of error
- +/- 3.3%
- Module
- 2
Source
Citation
SBM Omnibus Survey #2026-049, fielded May 1-4, 2026, N=1,000 US adults age 18+, +/- 3.3%.