Americans want husbands to provide, but few want them in charge

Aug 12–18, 2026 · n = 1,000 · MoE ±3.2%Source report ↗

Core finding

Verasight surveyed 1,000 U.S. adults from August 12 to 18, 2026. Most Americans (69.8%) say a husband should do his best to provide for his wife and children, and 64.9% say he should support her career. Only 7.4% say he should hold authority over her.

About half say a husband should frequently talk about his feelings (51.0%), and 47.5% say he should do half the housework and childcare. Respondents could choose several statements; 4.5% chose working with other men to keep women in their place.

Selected responses

Americans want husbands to provide, but few want them in charge.

In modern American marriage, the husband should

... do his best to provide for his wife and children
69.8%
...support his wife in her career
64.9%
...frequently express and discuss his emotional feelings
51.0%
...do half the housework and childcare, regardless whether the wife has a job
47.5%
...expect to have sex at least once a week
16.7%
...establish and maintain his authority over his wife
7.4%
None of the above
5.0%
...work with other men to keep women in their place
4.5%

n = 1,000 · Aug 12–18, 2026 · MoE ±3.2%

Respondents could select more than one option, so shares may sum to more than 100%.
ModeVerasight panel recruited via random address-based sampling, random person-to-person text messaging, and dynamic online targeting
PopulationUS adults age 18+
Field datesAug 12–18, 2026
Base (unweighted)1,000
Margin of error±3.2%
ModuleAOM Survey #2026-152
SponsorVerasight
Weight variableweight
Weighting targetsage, race/ethnicity, sex, income, education, region, metropolitan status

Sources

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    In modern American marriage, the husband should

    reports.verasight.io/r/aom-2026

Cite this question

AOM Omnibus, fielded August 12-18, 2026, N=1,000 US adults age 18+, +/- 3.2%.