When comparison motivates, and when it hurts

May 1–4, 2026 · n = 1,000 · MoE ±3.3%Source report ↗

Core finding

In a Verasight survey of 1,000 U.S. adults conducted May 1 to 4, 2026, 36% of Americans said comparing themselves to people doing better leaves them inspired, happy, or confident afterward.

A similar 33% said that same upward comparison leaves them disappointed, anxious, or frustrated. Smaller shares described reactions to comparing themselves with people doing worse.

Topline distribution

36% said upward comparison leaves them inspired, happy, or confident.

When comparing yourself to others, which of the following happens for you most often? Some of the response options seem similar, but that is on purpose. Please read carefully.

I compare myself to people doing better than me, and I feel inspired, happy, or confident afterward.
36.0%
I compare myself to people doing better than me, and I feel disappointed, anxious, or frustrated afterward.
33.4%
I compare myself to people doing worse than me, and I feel relieved, satisfied, or confident afterward.
22.6%
I compare myself to people doing worse than me, and I feel discouraged, anxious, or frustrated afterward.
8.0%

n = 1,000 · May 1–4, 2026 · MoE ±3.3%

ModeVerasight panel recruited via random address-based sampling, random person-to-person text messaging, and dynamic online targeting
PopulationUS adults age 18+
Field datesMay 1–4, 2026
Base (unweighted)1,000
Margin of error±3.3%
Module2
SponsorVerasight
Weight variableweight
Weighting targetsage, race/ethnicity, sex, income, education, region, metropolitan status

Sources

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    Please read carefully.

    reports.verasight.io/r/sbm-2026

Cite this question

SBM Omnibus Survey #2026-049, fielded May 1-4, 2026, N=1,000 US adults age 18+, +/- 3.3%.